teaching my toddler to read

Lately I’ve been extra motivated to teach my son, who just turned 3, how to read. It never even dawned on me that he would even be capable of doing this at such a young age until one of my friend’s informed me that her 3 year old can read. So in July I began to really teach him the sounds that each letter makes and recognition of each letter. (Leap Frog Fridge Phonics was a great help) Obviously, I’m no expert and I’m not professionally educated in this area, but hey, they worked! Hopefully somebody will read this and will find it helpful. Anyway, here are the different things I have been doing with him (and he loves it!):

~ ABC notebook- I bought a cheap spiral notebook, rounded up some old parenting magazines, and broke out the scissors and glue. Each page in the notebook is assigned a different letter. The first page being “Aa”, we browsed through the magazines looking for any “Aa’s” and pictures that begin with the letter “Aa”. I’d cut them out and glue ‘em on the page, making a very creative “Aa” collage. He loves doing this, but usually only stays focused for about 15 minutes or so.

~ Letter of the day- On blank white stickers (nametags, labels) I’d write a new letter (upper and lower case) everyday and we’d each wear one. Throughout the day I’d ask him what letter we were wearing, have him point out something in the house that begins with that letter…etc. If he couldn’t remember, I’d have him trot into the kitchen to his handy Fridge Phonics to find out. He would get very excited every morning and would remind me if I forgot to get give him his letter. After awhile, I’d let him choose the letter of the day.

~ “-at” words- I got this idea from my good friend. Think of a bunch of different “-at” words such as “pat”, “cat”, “bat” and write them down one at a time. Have your child make the sound of each letter and put the sounds together. I was sitting at the table feeding Scarlett and doing this with Charlie at the same time, not thinking anything would really happen. Well, IT DID!!! He read “bat” and “hat” all by himself! It was truly one of the coolest moments in my parenting so far. I got all teary-eyed and he jumped into my lap (before I even had a chance to praise him!) to give me a huge hug because he was so proud of himself.

~ Storytime- Whenever I read to him, I ask him questions about the story/pictures after each page I read. I think this helps him understand the story a little better and he gets to voice his opinions/thoughts about the book and characters. Also, I sometimes hand him a book and tell him to read it to me. He loves doing this, he feels important and smart (which he is, of course) and although he can’t read all the words, he is able to tell a story by looking at a picture.

Some people might think, “Damn, give it a rest, he’s only three!”, but it’s such a wonderful time spent with your child. Charlie loves it and gets so proud of himself. It’s also pretty neat to sit back and watch him teach Jenna all the stuff he knows. They will go to the fridge, put in letter after letter and sing “ABC’s” over and over!

What greater gift can you (help) give to your child, than the ability to read?

5 Responses to “teaching my toddler to read”

  1. Karen Says:

    Hey, good for you! Kids can read this early and it’s not pushing them if they enjoy it. Get a few books with long stories in them, not just the beginner “easy to read” ones. My son started reading the Disney story books based on the movies, the ones that have a full page picture and then a full page of text. I didn’t know he could read until I noticed he was spending ten minutes by himself looking at the same “picture” (he was really reading the words). And don’t worry what other people think. Do what works for you and your child.

  2. Jessie Says:

    Thanks for the sweet comment! I love nothing more than to sit down to read with my kids…especially right before bed : ) I will look into getting the long story books…thanks for the tip!

  3. Lindsey Says:

    You may not be professionally trained, but I am…. and I think that it is MARVELOUS! His kindergarten teacher will love you!! The best indicator for kids who do well in school is what they know by the end of kindergarten. Giving Charlie a step up will not only help his reading in the future, but also give him confidence in his abilities, which will most likely make him want to learn more in the future. Kudos to you!!

  4. Jessie Says:

    Thanks so much Lindsey!!! Coming from a teacher, that really means a lot!

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